“那么,每周末我都要带着冰淇淋来看她,拥抱她,即便她不认识我。”埃莉诺说。
毕竟,记住爱比记住某人的名字更重要。
Eleanordidn'tknorongwithGrandma。Shewasalwaysfthings,likewheresheputthesugar,whentopayherbills,andwhattimetobereadytobepickedupfroceryshopping。
"WhatwithGrandma?"Elea;Sheusedtobesueatlady。Nowshelookssadandlostarememberthings。"
"Grandma'sjustgettingold,"Mothersaid,"Sheht;
"What'sitliketogetold?"Elea;Doeseverybs?WillI?""Netsthiheygetold,EleahinkGrandmamayhaveAlzheimer'sdisease,andthatmakesherfetmore。utherinanursihepropereeds。"
"Oh,Mom!That'sterrible!She'llmissherownlittlehousesomu'tshe?"
"Maybe,butthereisn'tmuchelsewedo。She'llgetgoodcarethereandmakesome;
Eleanorlookedsorrowful。Shedidn'tliketheideaatall。
"wegoaen?"sheasked。"I'llmisstalkingtoGrandma,evenifsheds。"
"Weweekends,"Mothera;Wetakeherapresent。""Likeicecream?Grarawberryicecream!"Eleanorsmiled。
"Strawberryicecreamitis!"Mothersaid。
&imetheyvisitedGrandmainthenursinghome,Eleaocry。
"Mom,almostallofthepeopleareinwheelchairs"shesaid。
"Theyhavetobe。Otherwisethey'dfall,"Motherexplai;NowwhenyouseeGrandma,smileandtellherhowniceshelooks。"
Grandmasatallbyherselfiheroomtheycalledthesunparlor。Shesatlookingoutatthetrees。
Eleanrandma。"Look,"shesaid,&quhtyouapresent—yourfavorite,strawberryicecream!"
GrandmatooktheDixiedthespooingwithoutsayingaword。
"I'msureshe'senjoyi;Eleanor'smotherassuredher。
"Butshedoesn'tseemtoknowus。"Eleanorointed。
"Youhavetogivehertime,"Mothersaid。"She'sinnewsurroundings,aomakea;
ButtheheyvisitedGrandmaitwasthesame。Sheatetheicedsmiledatthem,butshedidn'tsayanything。
"Grandma,doyouknowwhoIam?"Eleanorasked。
"Yirlwhsmetheiceasaid。
"Yes,butI'mEleanor,tranddaughter。Don'tyourememberme。"Sheasked,throwingherarmsaroundtheoldlady。
Graly。
"Remember?SureIremember。Yirlwhsmeicecream。"
SuddenlyEleahatGrandmawouldneverrememberher。Grandmawaslivinginaworldallherown,inaworldofshadowymemoriesandloneliness。
"Oh,howIloveyou,Grandma!"shesaid。JusttheearrolldownGrandma'scheek。
"Love,"shesaid。"Irememberlove。"
"Yousee,dear,that'sallshewants,"Mothersaid。"Love。"
"Ihericecreameveryweekendthen,andhugherevenifshedoesn'trememberme,"Eleanorsaid。
&hatwasmoreimportant—torememberloveratherthansomeone'sname。