1。请在你们彼此的世界中保留一些空间，好让空中的风在你们之间舞蹈。
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2。彼此相爱，但不要让爱成为束缚。
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3。橡树和松柏也不能在彼此的阴影下生长。
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短语应用
&hestringsofalutearealoheyquiverwiththesamemusic。
evenas：正如；正当
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2。Forthepillarsofthetemplestandapart。。。
standapart：站开；离开
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婚姻的最佳境界
MakingMarriagetheBestItBe
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&wokindses，”saysRichardExley，evaandauthor。“Badmarriagesandhardmarriages。”
Thinkaboutit：Weddingstakemenandwomenfrroundsaimesoppositetemperaments，withvariousaicexpes，aher。Theresult？Oftenfliger，disappoiandpain。There’shatmarriageishardorthatanymarriagegobad。Butbadmarriagesbemadebetter。Itjusttakesalotofwork。
MarriageAsWeKoBe
RaymondandIlearnedhebealmostimmediately—Istartedmedicalschooljustthreemonthsafter。Myclassschedule，tstudyingandicalrotatioimetogetherandstrainedmarriage。TheadditionofourfirstpouressofresidenweassumedlifewouldbeeasyifIpraagroupwithsharedcall。
&wodtwo—yes，wehadanother—weredemanding。Wewerebusywithdshort-termmissiontrips，andthreeofourparehin10years。Lifetookatollonusasindividualsandasacouple；everythiimeahaionship。
Wereadseveralexarriagewritteedandknowledgeableauthorities。Eaedexactlyrongandhowtofixit。Butwhehepriopractice，we’dgetaheadonlyalittlebefotstuthesameoldpatterimewetriedahardertobeginagain。
&uhRaymondaheotherdidn’thearoruaorfelt。Therewaslittleovertflict，yetlittleemotionalintimacy。Issueswentunresolved，asdider，whichledtoitment。Thoughwewerebothittedte，itlackeditsinalpassioainit。
Buthow？
MarriageAsWeHopedItCouldBe
WefoundanaendedaMedical&Deyce。Drs。Alanandelsoheproblemsphysis’marriagesfaddescribedRegehegretreattheyearAspen，Colo。Itsouweneeded，so。Thefirstdatethatfitourschedulewaseightmonthsaway。EventhoughIdoubtedthose10dayswouldgeourrelationship，IthoughtavaColoradocouldbefunandrelaxingawouldhelp。
&includedgroupsessionsahasindividualsandasacouple。Theotherattendeeswereveryial；weallwerethereforsimilarreasons，soospeakfreelyabouthisorherproblems。Everyoneortiveanddcamaraderiedevelopedquickly。
TheNelsohe"threeuni，flictresolutionandent—andeeandfamilyourfirstprioritiesinsteadofallowingourworktotakeoverourschedules。Marriagehemotioimacy，theyexplained，aafflecteitheroyusuallyoccursbecausespouseslookawayfromeachothertohavetheseimeffulversationandsexualrelationswillnothappenregularlyunlessacoupleplansforthem。AsAlanemphasized，“Ifyanaffair，youwouldfindwaystobetogether。”