inotherwords：换句话说，也就是说，换言之
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生活态度最重要
OudeIsImportant
拉塞尔？康威Russellwell
IwasattendingaseminarinSydneyinAprilandpickedupaleote。Initwasarefle“Attitude”。
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“ThelongerIlive，themoreIrealizetheimpactofattitudeoude，tome，ismoreimportantthanfact。Itismoreimportantthahaion，thahanfailures，thahaneoplethinkorsayordo。Itismoreimportantthanappearaelligenceorskill。Itwillmakeorbreakapany，ae。
“Theremarkablethingisthatwehaveachardiudewewillembraceforthatday。Weotgethefactthatpeoplewillaaway。Weotgetheiheonlythingwedoistoplayorihatisourattitude。
“Iamcedthatlifeis10pertenstomeahowIreacttoit。Andsoitiswithyou。Youareinchargeofyourattitude。”
Thismeansthathappenstoyou，itishowyoureactorrespondtoitthatisimportant。
Youtroloriaisihquake，sabotage，terroristbombiruckbylightniraffitandsoon。Butyoutrolhowyouthisuts，evenwheheuimofa。
Youoanandgroanaboutyourmisfortuwhatyouhavelostphysicallyorfinancially。Oryouchoosetotysthatyouarestillalive，thatyouhavemostofyourphysientalfaculties。Aprolotitudewouldmakeyoumiserableandregressivewhereasagetoapositiveattitudewouldspuryoutothinkofpossibilities。
Youcouldbetauntedordisatedagainstifyoulostaleg，armoraneye。You’thelpsomeiivepeopledoingsugs。Ifyoufretoverwhatissaidandwhathasbeendeprivedofyou，doesitmakeyouaermined，perseveringorresourceful？
&titudetotakeiss，sarcasm，rudeness，ridiockerybotheryou。Whyrespoivelytosuchbehavioursofotherpeople？Itdoesn’tpaytostrikebaptuouslyatthem。Ifyoudthatyouareemotionally>
Showthatyouareemotier，thatyoudoradeinsultswithinsults，thatwhattheysayordodoesall。Showthedignitythattheydonothave。
Thepainisnotiivepeoplesayaboutyouordotobelittleyou。Thepainisinhowyouiaosuchacts。
&eivelyover-reactto，or“read”toomuto，lesayordo。It’sacaseofseeianissueasbigwhenitcouldreallybeinsignifit。
Evenifpeopleiyaredhtinhuman，youchoosetoigheirbehaviourorall。Thatisrealselfmastery。
Losingapartofthebodyisnottheemightbetheendofacareerthatyouweretrainedinandthebeginningofaagain，itmightnot。IfthefamousStephenHaeakthroughaputergadget，ifagolferstillplaywithametalarm，thenatrainerwholosesbothlegsorarmsstillfiherwaystoteach。
Whenyoulosehope，whenyoudespair，whenyoublamepeopleallthetime，whenyoudootryahenyouakelifemeaninglessforyourself。