最重要的是，它是关于你的生活使他人的心灵受到触动还是毒害，这样你的心不再独自悲欢。
只要你选择了触动他人的心灵，这些选择便是生活的全部。
Lifeisn'taboutkeepingscore。
It'snotabouthowmanyfriendsyouhaveorhotedyouare。
Notaboutifyouhaveplansthisweekendorifyou'realone。
Itisn'taboutwhoy，whoyouusedtodate，holeyou'vedated，orifyouhaven'tbeenwithaall。
Itisn'taboutwhoyouhavekissed。
It'snotaboutsex。
Itisn'taboutwhoyourfamilyisorhowmueytheyhave。
Orwhatkindofcaryoudrive。
Orwhereyouaresenttoschool。
It'snotabouthowbeautifullyyouare。
Orwhatclothesyouwear，whatshoesyouhaveon，orwhatkindofmusicyoulistento。
It'snotaboutifyourhairisblonde，red，black，orbrownorifyourskinistoolightortoodark。
Notaboutwhatgradesyouget，howsmartyouare，howsmarteverybodyelsethinksyouare，orhowsmartstassayyouare。
It'snotabyourwholebeingonapieceofpaperandseeingwhowill"acceptthewrittenyou"。Lifejustisn't。
But，lifeisaboutwhoyouloveandwhoyouhurt。
It'saboutyorunhappypurposefully。
It'saboutkeepirust。
It'saboutfriendship，usedasasanctityora>
It'saboutwhatyousayandwhatyoumeaful，maybeheartening。
It'sabrumorsandtributiygossip。
It'saboutwhatjudgmentsyoupassandwhy。Andwhmeo。
It'saboutwhoyou'veighfulldiion。
It'saboutjealnorandrevenge。
It'sabieaingitgroreadingit。
Butmostofall，it'saboutusingyourlifetotouchorpoisonotherpeople'sheartsinsuchawaythatcouldhaveneveroccurredalone。
Onlyyouchoosethewaythoseheartsareaffedthosechoicesarewhatlife'sallabout。