第36章打开成功之门的钥匙YourKeytoSuccess（2）
Theformulaseemstosaythatwemustbelieveinourabilitytosucceedbeforeerienysemblanceofsudthatistrue。That’swherethekoftheesin，andwhyitisthefirstequationintheformula。Beforewebelievewewillsucceedwithmadea，wemusthavesomekowhatsutailsandwhatstrengthsandabilitieswebringtothemix。Wemustalsokhabout“failure”。
Failureisofattemptingtoachieveagoalandfallingshortofthemark。Failureoweallowfallingshortofthemarktocauseust。Actually，thereareonlytwowaystofail。Giveupbefoalyoureallywantorueonapaththatiswrongforyoubeadeawroiallyaheerroneouschoiceistheostaywith。
Suppose，forexample，yougotintoyourdiafriendatanunfamiliarlo。Yougetturnedarouherea。Infailureformulanumberoneyoudiscoveryouarelostaocorrectyourcourse。However，youaretoofaroffcourseforjustoogetyoubatraakeaionaerthreeorfoursyoudecideyouwillofindyourway，soyougiveup，parkyoureverreachyourdestination。
Infailureformulawoyoudecidethateventhoughyoumadeawrongturn，youmuststickwithitbeakeaneweanyoufailedwheheihatgotyoulost。Soyouuedroad，knowingit’swrtomakeaionbecauseyou’vealreadymadeachoice，hitmaybe。
Bothsariossouyabsurdinthattext，buttheworldisfullofpeoplewhogiveupandquitbeftheirgoal，andwhostaywithbadchoigaftertheyhavediscoveredtheyarebad。
Toensuresuustbewillingtoalteryourdkeepalteringit，andtainandagain，asmaakes，toreachyourdestiheryoureaotwilldependonyourbeliefinyourabilitytoeventuallyarrive，andthatbringsusbacktotheula。
&ultimatelyknowingyourselfandyourabilities，andknowinghowtousethemmosteffethehustle-bustleoftoday’sworld，wesometimesfettotakeathhlookatourmostvaluableasset-ourselves。Onlywithself-awarenessaandiobelieveinourabilitytofisolutionandtoarriveatoals。
Peoplewhodon’tknowthemselvesareeasilyside-tracked。Theyhavenowell-definedpersonalboundariesaerofpower。Athhandaccurateself-assessmentprovidethepassweayontrack。Withoutaterofpoersonalbuideus，thereisnowayweachieveoalsbecausethereisnowaytoknowforsurewhatoalsare，orshouldbe。
Happy，tered，well-directedpeoplearepeople，ngandhohepeoplewhohavethebasipthiopersistinpursuihesearethepeoplewhosucceed。Theysucceedbecauseeveryachievedgoaliheirfaithiytosuderygreaterahings。Thehappyresultisahighdegreeofself-d，withsuffitself-ce，successis。