第55章瑕疵之美（1）
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Thoughweallagreethattoerrishuman，eachofusbelievesthatsheistheex。We’resupposedtobeperfect（osedtoberidfamous。）。
Butlearningfromourmistakes—aingourplain—eness—isanart。Soimeyoubreakaplateorloseyourkeys，whyride？siderthepossibilitythatthereisahiddenpatterhemistakesinyourlife。
1。Theartofbeiherrious
Iobeperceivedasspeddiffereodaystrivetoshuandbeeaveragefolks。（Admitit：Don’tyouloveknowingthatSharotheGap？）Butregardlessofhowmueytheyhaveinthebank，orhowmuchofabuzztheycreatewhentheyshowupatacluborcharityball，famousfolkswilloenjoythelifeyouandIcherish。Small，reassuringpleasuresareoff-limitstothem。Youhembbooksfromthelibrary，lingeringinacoffeeshoporwindowshoppingonMai。
&hesaddestthingsabfameaonceyourealizeyouhaveplenty，youmayleen，lifeisnoodasitgets。Youneversay，“Enoughalready”。
Theoweenawisemanandafoolisthatthewisemanknowsheisafool。Iheoweeraordinarylifeandanordiheextraordinarypleasuresyoufindins。
2。Befoolishinpublic
&andgullible，trustireckless，playfulbutihesearewhatittakestobesilly。Itisusuallytheresultofabinatiqualitiesandourquirkypersonalitytraits。Wearetruertoourselveswheopmakingsense。Uand-upicswhosetouttobefuhecklediftheyarenotsillypeoplebeplybyembragtheroleoftheuy，thecharapsintowallsandshoartieswithsocksthatdon’tmatch。
&imeyhttalkingtoyourselfior，don’tapologize。Thesilentgratitudeyougeewhenyourevealyourmostvuloothersiswellworththetemporaryblush。
Flauntingyourflaws，notyouress，iswhatopularwithyourfriends。
3。Findmeaninginyourmistakes
Inartaure，earstobeagoofisofteesigodrawattentiontoaparticularaspectofthework。InIslamicart，forinstance，smallflawsaboundinwhatlooklikethemostluxuriouscarpets，potteryandmosaics。ArtistsareurgedtopurposelymakemistakestoremindadmiriGodaloion。
Inmusiotesthatdeviatefromaablishedpatterocreateemotionaltension。Inthe“FuneralMarch”ofhisThirdSymphohovenrepladswithsilehemountingsenseofsorrowinthepieliterature，JamesJoycewastheoftheiionalerror。ForJoyce，mistakeswere“portalsofdiscovery。”InUlysinparticular，typos，misspellingsauationaddtotheinsightfulnessofhisprose。
&towoheuhemistakesyouareabouttomake。
4。Askforhelp
Wealloberemiimetotimethatweprobablydotakestosolvealltheproblemsoftheworld。Butwearewonderfullyequippedtomarvelatitsexistehiseridoftheideathatensable。